Every year at this time, thousands of writers are tasked with finding a fresh spin on the annual New Year’s Resolution article. Meanwhile, those of use who still believe in resolutions make lists that we know will soon be misplaced or, worse, become painful reminders of what we could have accomplished…if only. Read more
Nearly a week out from the tragedy in Newtown, CT, the event continues to affect many of us with the impact of a personal, family loss. Perhaps particularly for parents and grandparents, the “facts” of that day will remain haunting long after the cameras and talking heads move on to other “stories.”
Our deepest, most sincere sympathies go out to all those who lost loved ones – and to the entire Newtown community. We can only hope that there is some small comfort for them in knowing that millions of people around the country and the world are profoundly saddened by their losses.
It is disturbing that it took something this horrible to spur our country into actions so obviously essential for maintaining a reasonably safe, civilized society. But it does look like we are on our way to common-sense gun laws and perhaps even to improvements in the area of mental health.
There’s been a lot of discussion about exactly why this tragedy was the one to break through the noise in Washington. But it’s probably also worth reflecting on our own reactions. In this so-called information age, our own sanity may depend on the ability to tune out a lot of the horror we see on our many screens. Perfectly nice, caring people will often say, “Oh, I just couldn’t watch” or “I hate to admit it, but I really don’t want to know.” Yet, when we don’t look, we can’t get angry enough to speak up and demand that some necessary action be taken. Perhaps worse, we fall into the habit of distracting ourselves, rather than risking something very scary: sitting with our feelings.
Caring is a tricky balancing act these days. We can’t possibly take it all in. We can’t react either emotionally or politically to every event or cause any more than we can live totally green, sustainable lifestyles. But to paraphrase Gandalf in The Hobbit*, what makes the world a better (less evil) place is the little everyday actions of ordinary folks. Maybe one of those everyday actions is slowing down and giving ourselves a moment of silence, at least once in a while, to simply let in what we feel.
*The Hobbit, J.R.R. Tolkien.
It always happens this time of year. The season that’s supposed to be about giving, sharing and spending time with the people we care about starts to feel like something else entirely. As we chase down gifts and plan menus for parties and gatherings, it’s easy to fall into an unsustainably stressful state of mind.
Buying eco-conscious gifts, shopping locally and making holiday meals with farm-fresh foods can all be elements of a sustainable holiday. But if we spend the next few weeks rushing to “get everything done,” we can easily miss the simple joys of the season. If your holidays never quite measure up to childhood memories, perhaps it’s time to find a more sustainable holiday pace. Read more
Is “sustainable holiday” an oximoron? Is it really possible to block out all those messages to over-consume everything from gifts to food to libations? Would the holidays even be as much fun if we truly made them sustainable?
Here are a few ideas that can help you keep the holiday season green, local and enjoyable. Read more
Please note that in the most recent post, “Greening Our Energy Future Can Start at Home,” the link to the NJ Board of Public Utilities was not live. That problem has now been fixed. The correct url is http://www.state.nj.us/bpu.